Dafna Star - Human Design

  When my ex used to hear people say to me, “What a calm person you are, so chilled, so patient,” he would burst out laughing—on a good day. Because anyone who really knows me knows that when my fuse decides to drop by, it’s best to find the nearest shelter. And my fuse visits quite often—only we’ve just gotten older, he and I, and we learned how to develop a healthy relationship :-) Typical Capricorn, by the way: They look calm and quiet, but say something wrong… whoa, and the show begins. And when I want something, or when emotion rises, the very last thing I want to do is wait. But life and the world have taught me that in the end, when I’m impulsive and don’t wait a moment for the emotion to calm, or for that sudden craving pounding inside me to pass, or for the words that just want to burst out of my mouth to pause a little, the one who suffers most is me. “Eat an olive,” as they say. For the emotional person— and here I mean someone with an emotional awareness system— there i...

A friend told me a few days ago, that quite often , actually,  more than a little  he and his wife end up in an argument or a fight. Or she suddenly slips into a bad mood, or an inner drama. They start talking, and somehow, right from the beginning really, it always turns out that he’s the drama queen. Sometimes even without her saying a word – she just comes home in a bad mood, and suddenly he’s the one who spins into drama, into an emotional storm,  buzzing around the house like an Energizer bunny. But not the cute pink kind, more like a little Chucky doll spreading drama in every direction. So we sat down and talked about his chart, and I told him something like - “You know what, darling, this whole thing where you suddenly turn into Priscilla, Queen of the Desert ?  It’s not really yours And the fact that you want to run away whenever she’s in a bad mood or wrapped in her own emotions not so pleasant to say, but it’s actually pretty correct for you right now.” H...

A month ago I wrote a letter to a teacher I know. She has been involved for a long time in the experiment of Human Design . My exact words were: "...Sometimes I think that if someone knew how strong the aura of Projectors really is, they would probably put us in jail 🙂 How much respect and gentleness I have to show within myself towards people and the world in order not to manipulate them—it’s so easy, it’s scary. Luckily, there is a limit to the Projector. I think that the invitation for the Projector is not meant only for him but also, especially, for others. As you have said quite a few times in your lectures, I don’t really need an invitation to enter into the other—the invitation teaches me to respect others. To give them a chance to choose whether it is right for them to hear what I have to say or not. And sometimes I find myself envious of the Manifestors . They at least get to release all their energy when the right moment comes. I never can and never will be able to do...